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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Brief-Awareness6788 on 2023-08-24 07:35:43.

My best friend, spouse and mutual friend invited me to celebrate the mutual friend’s birthday at a rental cabin. The last time I traveled with this same group, I picked out a house with more bedrooms and an additional bathroom – not the house they picked originally. We booked it and ended up loving the house and having a blast.

Anyway, I’m late to the party for this particular weekend away and they’ve already booked a house that has one bedroom, one bathroom, plus a pullout sofabed. In the reviews of the place, I learned previous guests brought an air mattress for an additional bed.

I don’t rough it. I don’t camp. I don’t share. I live in a house that has 4 bathrooms for 3 people. When I travel, I like nice hotels and resorts. AITA if I don’t go on the trip because I won’t have my own room and bathroom? My friends learned last time what I like, but they went with the other friend’s choice because it’s their birthday.