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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/cracker-jack- on 2023-08-25 00:37:42.

Ill try to keep this short. I (40M) have 2 boys from a previous marriage. My wife (40F) also has 2 kids from a previous marriage. We now have 2 baby girls together. Yes its madness most the time but we like our big family.

My current wife and my ex, my boys’ mother, don’t care for each other, at all. My wife makes comments here and there about my ex but never in front of the my boys. Today my son, 14, was asking me for $20 for some online game. Its not unusual for me to give the kiddos money but I told him he could earn some money tomorrow. My wife tells him to ask his mother for some of the child support money I give her. I wasn’t present but she came and told me about it and thought it was funny. I was speechless at first. I told her that it was inappropriate to say that and leave my son out of the hatred she has for my ex. She tried to defend herself at first but now I’m getting cold shoulder. I certainly dont think I was TA but she sure is trying to make me feel like it.

AITA.