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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Minhte on 2023-08-25 17:12:54.

Like I said, I love my boyfriend. I come from a quiet family. Quiet as in everything we do is very soft. Like we close the door softly and we’re very mindful of loud noises in the morning. I’m a very light sleeper so I usually put ear plugs in so I don’t wake up by every little noise.

I then moved in with my boyfriend a couple of months ago. Everything is great and he treats me very well. Everything is great except for how loud he is. I know he doesn’t do it intentionally, but I wish he would just be more soft. Like he stomps when he walks around or he’ll sniffle super loud or just close the cabinets very loudly. I’ve grown accustomed to how loud he is during the day, but it kills me in the morning because I can hear it through my earplugs as well. I work from home and usually he’ll go into office, so I should be able to get more sleep, but I’m not able to when he’s being loud in the morning.

We’ve had conversations about him being more quiet and he has improved, but I genuinely don’t think he’s capable of being more quiet??