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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/stevia05142019 on 2023-08-28 22:51:28.

As the title states my husband pisses in bottles at night to avoid leaving the room.

A little back story. This is something I have asked him not to do numerous times. We currently do not sleep in the same room, I am 37 weeks pregnant and he snores. So we’ve just been separated for ease of sleep at this point.

He had urinated in a few bottles while sleeping in our babies nursery. I asked him to please not do that and just get up and use the restroom two steps from the bedroom. He claims he’ll wake the dogs which in turn will wake me and he doesn’t want to disrupt my sleep. I told him I would prefer he went to the bathroom and not urinated in bottles in our soon to be babies room.

I thought we’d gotten over it but this morning I went in to turn his sound machine off as he had already left for work. I found an emptied bottle that clearly had urine in it at one point. I sent him a rage text saying it’s fucking disgusting and I’ve asked him not to do it. He genuinely seems to think that he’s doing me a favor by not getting up at night. The dogs bark regardless and my sleep is shit at this point in pregnancy anyways. He doesn’t see why it’s a problem if he dumps it out in the morning.

I try to argue I get my happy pregnant ass up to use the bathroom…

I’m at a loss… Am I the asshole?