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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Extra-Impression-800 on 2023-06-22 00:38:30+00:00.

I 27F and my sister 30F have a really strained relationship. I am very low contact with her and she only contacts me to either get money or ask me to buy stuff for her kids. Me and my husband 27F are very well-off and own a business together so overtime with some fun money I collected designer handbags, and soon I had a collection so when we brought our house I made a huge closet to put all of them in.

Now, recently me and my husband just announced our pregnancy, and we threw a party so we messaged family to come over and celebrate with us. My sister came and she looked around a lot for some reason so since I was suspicious I made sure to watch her moves.

Soon she started making her way upstairs and I told my husband to tell people I’m using the bathroom, and I signaled him showing him my sister going up stairs so I went up with her trying to be low about it, I saw her look around a few rooms and mine and my husbands than she found my handbag collection and looked around a bit and took three and stuffed it in her duffel bag, I forgot to mention, but I should’ve been suspicious by how awkwardly big it was but I assumed it was for her 2 kids.

She took like 3, which were my really expensive ones, my Birkin, Chanel and Dior bags. I screamed what do you think you are doing and she drops the bag and starts saying why are you following me and I tell her clearly because you are trying to steal my bags and she starts saying how I don’t need all these bags and I shouldn’t be selfish, I told her I’d be happy to give her my old bags but not these because I enjoy collecting them, I’m sorry if it sounds snobby it grew to be a habit, soon she goes down the stairs crying unnecessarily loud and so a few people follow her asking what’s wrong and she said basically the whole thing that happened upstairs and everyone kind of scolded her, because 5 people which were my mom, my aunt (her mom), my cousin, my dad and my uncle.

My mom and dad taking her side really hurt, and so now I am really wondering if AITA.

(She took her kids btw.)