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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/One-Passage577 on 2023-08-30 17:01:42.

My son told me to come her, though I have seen it on YouTube but mostly the alien Reddit account. My daughter is getting married in a week. My wife got in an accident a week ago. She has a bad concussion and her foot is in a cast now. It could have been so much worse.

The main problem is the concussion, she can not deal with any loud noises, bright lights, and gets overwhelmed easily. Her foot makes it really hard for her to move around right now. We talked to over and we came to the conclusion she can’t go to the wedding. It would cause her way to much pain to be around that many people and we can’t ask everyone to be quiet at a wedding. We figured a FaceTime call would work for the main ceremony.

We told our daughter and she didn’t take it well. We had a big argument which my wife had to leave for due to her head hurting. I told her I will still be there and she can watch it on FaceTime so she won’t miss it. That didn’t go over well either.

She uninvited me to the wedding if my wife won’t be there. I told her she is extremely selfish she wants her mom at the wedding since she knows about the accident. She hasn’t talked to me since and I am wondering if we should stick to the decision or have my wife go even though it’s going to be awful for her.

I was told to include it is a mountain wedding.