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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/kyrahasreddit on 2023-08-30 20:45:07.

I feel like this is such a minor thing to brag about, but I really want to throw this out there. I started dating someone a couple of months ago (I’m 24, he’s 27), and I’m not going to lie: it bothered me that he is a lot messier than I am. I talked to him about it not expecting anything, just to let him know that I struggle with it sometimes, especially if he’s in my space. I live in a very small studio apartment, so it tends to get cluttery very easily.

He responded saying he cares about me too much to let me go over such a trivial, stupid thing he could easily fix. Sweet, but of course I’d hear this many times before so I didn’t think too highly of it.

Anyways, he slept over a couple of days ago and I remember telling him how hard of a day I was having at work, and how I really was not looking forward to having to do anything at home at all. So, when I came home, he’d done all of my dishes (even the ones that were already there before he arrived that evening), and made my bed. Even tried to arrange my pillows in the decorative way I always have them. Didn’t get it quite right, but it was so charming I might lay them the same way next time I make my bed. I’m lucky to have found this man. He’s a cutie.

Just wanted to share. I’ve never dated anyone who actually does as they say (along with many, many other kind things he does for me and says to me). I think I’m going to tell him I’m totally falling for him next time I see him.