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For me It is troubling that within some islander communities, the physical disciplining of children is still defended as tradition, cultural practice, or a form of necessary correction. However, framing violence as discipline—especially when it results in bruises, welts, or physical injury—does far more harm than many realize. It not only causes lasting physical trauma but also deeply impacts a child’s emotional and psychological development. Children raised in such environments often learn to associate love with pain, develop fear around making mistakes, and struggle to trust their parents. These early experiences can shape how they relate to others, increasing the likelihood of accepting toxic or abusive relationships later in life. Cultural heritage should never be used to justify harm; it should evolve to prioritize the safety, dignity, and well-being of the next generation.