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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Impossible-Bowl-3184 on 2023-08-31 00:45:47.

I (33M) have a girlfriend (33F) who doesn’t like to shave her armpits. She shaves everything else, although she’ll happily go kinda long between shaves, but her armpits she probably shaved once every 2 or 3 months (longer in winter) for a special occasion if she really feels like it. She says she loves have armpit hair and it makes her feel more womanly and sexy and herself. I don’t have an issue with this most of the time (although I’m not really used to this and would probably prefer she shaves). And she’s really clean and never smells bad or anything.

But recently I invited her to a family function where she’ll meet a lot of my family and some family friends for the first time. She said she’s going to wear a strappy summer dress. I asked her if she’ll shave her armpits and she said she wasn’t planning to. I asked her if she could do it for me as I don’t want my family or family friends to judge her or think she’s weird. She got really offended and said that was really harsh of me and that now she doesn’t even want to come. I don’t think I’m being unreasonable asking her to shave.

AITA?