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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/coffeeloveeveryday on 2023-08-31 00:56:41.

Just a rant.

I gave it a shot with a 31M who was a classmate back in school. I know I’m not a 10, and I’m desperate for companionship, so I gave it a go with this man who had been following on social media for some years “simping” you might say. He’s a chef, grew up with his single mom, very much a momma’s boy. Seemed polite. Like I said I’m not a 10, and I felt like I was in no position to get picky.

This man was dumb AS FUCK. As if his brain stopped developing at some point in middle school. Nothing in common. Sex was as meh as it can get. I had to make the plans, otherwise we wouldn’t see each other. Keep in mind, this guy was the one pursuing me. I honestly think I was only a warm hole for him.

And you know what happened? This man was trying to cheat on me with a lesbian coworker. He really wanted to pull a lesbian while dating me. He thought he would succeed at turning this girl around. All of this dumbfuckery happened in the span of two months.

Ever since then I’ve been hitting myself in the head 'cause why the fuck did I do that for? But also, how come I’m not enough for this man who, I repeat, was giving me advances for YEARS? We were together for two fucking months and he already wanted to cheat?

The experience left me so bummed I now have no desire to talk to men at all. Now I’m used to lack of sex.