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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/EuphoricPanda6 on 2023-08-31 21:48:51.

So my (31f) other half (32m) gave out at me the other day for not helping with the yard work, which they do once in a blue moon might I add. I have no problem with helping with the yard work, but they implied that I never help. This then led to the discussion about everything I do around the house and they claim that it’s not hard work and asked what exactly it is that I even do… to which I replied that I will stop doing what I do everyday and you will soon see. I do most things and anything that is delegated to them I usually end up doing anyway. So I have stopped doing anything except what I need like washing my own clothes, washing a dish that I need, not cleaning the floors or tidying any clutter or mess. Their friend doesn’t think it will have any effect on them, but I have to try something because I feel so unappreciated and taken for granted. Am I the asshole?