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The original was posted on /r/salmacian by /u/Imalthica on 2025-06-23 01:32:47+00:00.
Hey y’all! I had my original phalloplasty back in August 2024, and recently got my ‘bendy rod’ semi-rigid erectile implant in May 2025, but I’ve been struggling to find decent underwear that supports everything and breathes appropriately. I’ve mostly been wearing ‘mens’ cotton boxer briefs, but they aren’t super well designed for my excess fat in my hips and butt, meaning that they slide down and cause me to chafe badly. It has just felt like an impossible balancing act between breathable underwear to mitigate potential vulval/vaginal infections, supportive underwear to keep my penis in place (especially after the ‘bendy rod’ surgery), aesthetics, and cost, and I just don’t know what to do!
So, if you know of anything, please drop your underwear recommendations here! The cheaper and cuter (while also being functional), the better!