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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/user50010892 on 2023-09-01 10:22:04.

My wife and I have been married for four years and have a two year old. We have alternated going to her family for thanksgiving and my family for christmas one year, and alternating each year. I am currently starting my second year of Law School. This year we’ve visited both her family multiple times and my family multiple times. Over the summer I was lucky enough to intern at an Attorney’s office, but it was over a 22 hour drive away. We drove once at the beginning of the summer and once at the end of the summer to return here for me to go to school. We had to not go to her dads family reunion but was able to make the 6 hour drive to her mothers family reunion after returning from my internship. We then made another 3 hour drive to attend my grandpa’s wedding, which made us miss an event with her brother another 6 hours away. Now her family has planned a Thanksgiving trip that would be a 26 hour round trip for us, ans I’m trying to tell her we’ve traveled enough this year and would like to have Thanksgiving and Christmas with just our family. I feel bsd my toddler has been strapped in a car seat for so much traveling this year. Should I be more reasonable?