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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Throwayaccount137 on 2023-09-01 11:42:11.

So ive been lucky enough to be able to work at my fathers company after college and make good money for my age (27). I have been dating my current girlfriend for 4 years at this point and have been paying for most of our shared bills like rent and amenities solely cause i make like 10x what she makes and it would be unfair for her have to pay above of her means cause i want to live a certain lifestyle. I have never been good with saving my money tbh but its never really been a problem so for however recently my girlfriend has been nagging me on how i spend my money. I was pretty moody that day and ended up lashing out and the argument ended with me saying she can start telling me what to do with my own money when she starts paying her fair share.

Now she seems really hurt even though i assured her that i dont really care about how much she earns and that i just misspoke in anger.