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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Throwaway-Fake on 2023-09-01 18:23:48.

I (23f) was born to a mother that put me up for adoption, and I was lucky enough to be adopted by two amazing people who I consider my true parents.

Recently my biological mother found me on Instagram and contacted me, and we began talking until I agreed to meet her.

Unfortunately, the meeting did not go well at all. I found out that she is a fruitarian (essentially she only eats fruits) and she began scolding me when I ordered a milkshake. Once home I told her that I had not appreciated her trying to dictate what I should do when we are a little more than strangers and that I am not interested in having a relationship with her if she is going to force me to adopt her lifestyle.

She has since been apologizing and begging me to see her again and my birth parents think that I should have handled her with more care, saying that meeting her in a place not involving food would help us build a relationship. AITA for wanting to shut things down so quickly?