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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/420Butt_Stuff69 on 2023-09-02 18:29:57.

Title pretty much explains it. We have been broken up for over 6 months. We have two children together that I have full custody of. She has recently gotten a job about 2 months ago but has been dragging her feet about getting her own phone plan. Her iPhone 13 and her SE watch have both been paid off by me but she hasn’t even made an effort to get them unlocked by the carrier so she can get a plan with less expensive. Today I told her I was done running her errands for her and giving her rides to work because she doesn’t have a valid license and also refuses to do the paper work and fees to get that reinstated. I told her I was way too busy to be doing that stuff for her and I’d only be giving t her rides to come see the children. She got mad and threatened me with a bunch of irrelevant things about CPS and spreading lies. Which she always does when she doesn’t get her way. So enough was enough and I told her I’m done helping her out and good luck. I called the carrier and canceled her plan. I had given her a heads up that her time on the plan was coming to an end at the end of the bill cycle which was 3 days ago and she still hadn’t done. Also I know it’s not good for her to not have cell service. But she can’t be unsupervised with the kids with out me or my parents being there. Soooo am I the asshole for cutting it off immediately today with out warning?

Edit: words