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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/improveeverysecond77 on 2023-09-02 22:31:26.


I had a full blown panic attack today and I’m still terrified to confront my parents. I am 21 y/o girl and living with my parents still while I attend school. I recently started hooking up with this guy and was not on BC. We had to use Plan B a few times (i was paranoid and wanted to be safe), and we usually meet up late at night since we are both busy and it is a FWB type situation. Well my sister knew about this all and claimed she’d keep it a secret. No. She told our parents. I feel so humiliated embarrassed gross disgusting and dirty. They called me a whore. It almost feels perverted / violating for my parents to know such an intimate part of my life. I am still quite dependent on them and I am scared of what they will do. I appreciate any and all advice. I know for sure I am going to cut my sisters off permanently. But I have to face my parents alone and I feel sick. I was getting really dark thoughts today about this. I know it seems unrealistic but I don’t even want to speak with them on it, even if they ask/berate me. I feel so so so so so violated. The entire thing feels wrong. No one’s father or mother should know this much. It also means I can’t see him anymore because when I leave their going to think I’m just “being a whore.” What would you do in my situation?