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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/AdAmbitious3910 on 2023-09-02 20:25:43.


Throw away account because my siblings have Reddit.

I (20M) was not a planned birth. I have 5 older sisters and there is a big age gap between us. The second youngest sibling in my family is 8 years older than me. Since my parents were already busy with 5 children and just welcomed a new baby into the family, they never had a chance to update the will (I am just assuming this, as there is no bad blood in the family and the whole family always got along great. I also never knew about never being in the will until my parents passing). Three weeks ago, my parents tragically died in a car accident and my family and I have started talking with lawyers and going over their will and final wishes. And to my surprise (and mentioned before), I was not mentioned in the will. The will was last updated when the second youngest child was born, but not when I was born. The will simply says to divide everything (money/property/etc.) equally amongst the children. However, I don’t receive anything because I wasn’t mentioned. And what makes matters worse is that my sisters are not being compliant and refuse to divide things equally, including me. They say that it would be a hassle and that they need the money more than me because they all have families while I still go to college and dorm. I was enraged. I yelled at my family and called them selfish pricks. I told them that mom and dad would be ashamed for how they were acting and tarnishing all the family morals our parents have taught us. I left my oldest sister’s house in a rage (we were all there when discussing the will) and haven’t talked to them since. AITA for getting mad at my sisters and trying to get them to include me in everything while dividing assets? I loved my parents very much and don’t want to make their passing about money. I would give up all my money I had, if it meant I could see my parents again.