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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Runi-Baumann on 2023-09-03 01:23:40.

For context I (f22) had my baby when I was 20. She was born 2 months early and had major breathing issues when she was born. I had told everyone they are not to kiss my daughter but I don’t care if they hold her. This cousin-we will call Carol- kept kissing my baby behind my back and she had caught a couple bugs from this. The final straw came when Carol was saying goodbye to everyone in the house and kissed my daughter while I was holding her in my arms.

Me: I have told you not to kiss her. Multiple times.

Carol: Well I just did.

I spoke with my husband (M22) and we both agreed that she would no longer be allowed to hold her. Ever since when she comes around she ignores my daughter.

Edit: My husbands family and even some on my side think I’m just being an asshole and need to lighten up and every one has been harassing me to change my standing on this.

More context: Carol is my husbands cousin. She has disagreed with us since we got engaged but we didn’t care cause she stayed with a guy who kept cheating on her anyways.