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The original was posted on /r/tifu by /u/Fresh-Purpose1829 on 2025-07-27 22:42:32+00:00.

so…5 days ago matched with this girl on a dating app,immediately connected and started talking and texting, she seemed really nice and understanding, then i started to see some things, i saw her take screenshots which she said were accidental, okay understandable, then later on…i had a talk with her to have our first date….she only agreed for me to go to her city, which is 50km away from where i live and i don’t know the city well,i still agreed to go.

on the road, she texted, mentioned something about inviting me to her apartment, which seemed weird because we never met, so i text my bro and redflags start to go up, finally arrive at the destination…she video called me, but she was not on video, i asked her to use camera so i feel safe, she said “you will see me enough” and guided me to some shady streets, i told her if we don’t meet in a public space im leaving and she said “i cant there because people know me” and so i did, but i feel terrible and as if i ruined something that could have been good. At the moment i felt as if i was either being set up

TLDR:i felt like i was being setup so i left before that girl came and now i kinda regret it