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The original was posted on /r/tifu by /u/pomalochamp on 2025-08-03 12:10:00+00:00.

Im in a three year relationship with my girlfriend(both 20yrs old), all is well. As you expect there have been some saved in chat snaps that are explicit in nature including a recent video. (Not really recent but a scroll or two up in snap memories).

My gf was sleeping over last night and we wake up to emails saying attempted login at 12am, two factor authentication removed and successful login into her Snapchat. We start going, well shit who ever has hacked you, can blackmail us or whatever. After changing passwords and setting up 2fa we realise that it’s impossible to login into the account, without the text message sent to her number.

The only other device with her number / iCloud connected is her iPad. She asks her brother if he went on it and he says no - maybe she’s been robbed or something. She tells him well the iPads been dead for months so if it has charge she’ll know someone’s been on it. He then changes his story, to he went on it two days ago for her email (it’s linked to his clash royal or some shit).

We go to her house and look at the screen time, and funny enough two days ago there was no active screen time, however last night there was 40 minutes worth.

10mins on messages, 10 on photos. Snapchat isn’t there as it was deleted.

Fast forwarding to when her brother comes home, and my gf confronts him, he denies but then admits yes he went onto messages, but only to check if her and their dad have said anything about him. (We opened the messages app onto our chat meaning he read it)

My gf then asks why did he login into her Snapchat account and he said he got carried away and it was spontaneous.

(Snapchat was never downloaded on the iPad to begin with so it wasnt spontaneous)

Which is just wrong, as he tried to login two times and was successful on the third. She asked if he saw anything, he said nothing loaded when he clicked on memories.

He’s been acting weird to her and myself, for example talking to her more, like what a kid does to their parents when they’ve done something wrong. And for me he’s not looking at me nor did he say one word to me - and looks star struck. I think the guy saw some explicit photos and a video of me and his sister having sex.

Im traumatised that he’s traumatised of what he’s seen of myself and his sister. I can’t look at him the same.

(Still confused on whether it was on purpose to see some stuff or just an accident and wanted to stalk to find out about something else)

TL;DR

My girlfriend and I had explicit photos and a video on our saved in chats to which her brother logged into her account for whatever reason, stalked our text messages and then witnessed a video of me raw dogging her sister. I can’t see him the same anymore after knowing what he’s seen of me.

Moral of the story dont have explicit photos on Snapchat there’s no point. Or you’ll traumatise a nosy teen.

Update:

After reading some comments I genuinely feel sick, makes me want to take like 5 showers. Surely it can’t be what you guys are saying.