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The original was posted on /r/transmedical by /u/-TheNewGirl on 2025-08-09 05:48:01+00:00.

I came out as a trans woman last year… I’ve been on the main trans subs and I just feel out of place there. They say bad things about transmeds so I never came over.

Today, I came over and things here just make sense. It’s not all crazy with people making things up and acting like children, in my opinion.

I agree that being trans is a medical issue, it makes sense and I have dysphoria.

At the same time, I accept non-binary identities and don’t think passing is important.

It’s like I’m on the fence and have nowhere to go… Or more like I don’t know where to go.

I don’t even feel like I can speak my mind over there without getting downvoted to oblivion. And here, I’m not even sure. I guess I’ll find out shortly.

Tonight; I went down a rabbit hole and, I think, I understand the differences between tucutes and transmeds. And, honestly, I think tucutes are damaging the community.

I don’t want to blame anyone or a specific group because there are good and bad in every group. But the movement over there involves too much pandering and ignoring the status quo.

Like how can a lesbian be male? How can a lesbian be expected to be attracted to men? How is it that anything goes and if you ask questions you’re phobic?

I just don’t even know anymore.