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The original was posted on /r/transmedical by /u/Sad-Marionberry7117 on 2025-08-09 22:14:27+00:00.

yeah there’s ugly ass ftms who may have looked better as girls or whatever, but like most of us don’t become ugly as men. we often have the same level of attractiveness. maybe some of us aren’t great at styling male clothes, hair etc.

it’s just annoying to me because ppl will try to act like trans men turning out “ugly” means they shouldn’t have transitioned.

i often see comments under trans guy progress posts that are like “oh massive glow down” “go back 🤤” and shit like that. i think these are just made by straight guys who generally won’t find a guy attractive anyway. like yes, he looks like a guy now instead of a girl you find hot, no shit dumbass.

AND SOME OF US SERIOUSLY LOOK WAY better post transition (definitely my case, i was depressed and fat pre everything including social transition, and just looked like a weird fat guy with weird boobs, a big ass and unflattering girl/guy clothes on depending on when). idk why it’s always considered a glow down, probably bc straight guys can’t just jerk off to it anymore. like wtf

AND EVEN IF WE DO BECOME UGLY??? WHO TF CARES??? like i’d be happier as the ugliest man in the world rather than as the most attractive woman ever😱