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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/treehouseplant on 2023-09-04 14:56:10.

The title says it all.

I have a 6 year old son from a previous relationship and I don’t want to have another child. We are both on the same page on this.

My partner has spoken to a doctor (prior to our relationship) about getting a vasectomy, but the doctor told him he was too young.

I have tried several methods of birth control and I’ve had a lot of issues with long term bleeding, spotting, etc.

It has been a few years since he spoke to a doctor about getting a vasectomy. I asked him if he would try seeing a doctor again.

He said it would be easier for me to get my tubes tied than it would be for him to get a vasectomy.

This is total bullshit considering how many health issues I have (which he is aware of). I’ve tried to explain this to him but he doesn’t seem to understand or care.

I’m angry.