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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Honest_Boysenberry40 on 2023-09-04 17:37:41.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, together for 3 before that.

She’s about 14 weeks pregnant. The baby was planned, we’re both very happy about it, life is perfect.

She wanted to share the news with her family in person. Her family doesn’t live close to us. She talks to them all the time but we rarely see them. I’ve never had that awkward, cliche experience of her mom sitting down and showing me the embarrassing photos of her when she was younger.

So a week ago her parents came out here to visit on this was going to be the perfect time to announce the news. She told them, everyone was excited, things were great.

Later that same day it was just the two of us and her mom and her mom started asking her about all of those things women talk about when a baby is coming, and one of those things was whether or not my wife plans to breastfeed. I already know the answer, she’s planning to breastfeed. When she told her mom she was, her mom said “Can you breastfeed even with the implants? How does it work?” My head whipped around so fast. What implants? First time I’ve heard about any implants. My wife’s face said it all, eyes wide and silently shouting at her mom to be quiet.

I’m a completely monogamous person now, a totally faithful man, but prior to marriage I had touched my fair share of breasts and I’ve always been able to spot the fakes. My own wife has fake boobs and I didn’t know? I’m telling you that they’re very nice, amazing even, but they don’t look or feel fake whatsoever. They’re a normal size (very full C), feel soft and “natural” to the touch, aren’t unusually perky. I mean she was 20 when we met so perky boobs are expected to some extent.

I wasn’t going to let it go. As soon as we were alone I asked her about it. She admitted that yes she got implants when she was 18 because she was so flat and had no confidence because of it. It’s not something she wants people to know about. Ok, but I’m not just somebody.

I asked her if she’s had other work done, but wasn’t expected her to say anything else. She told me she had a nose job too and her Cupid’s bow reshaped. I’ve seen pictures of her as a kid and a pre-teen but I realized in that that I don’t think I’ve ever seen photos of her from probably age of 12-17 (she got the nose job at 17). She refuses to show me any pictures of what she looked like before these things.

I called her a liar. She lied to me. She pretended that everything about her, except her hair color, was all natural. She’s hurt that I called her a liar.

AITA for calling my wife a liar for not divulging that she’s had plastic surgery?