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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Dstar538888 on 2023-09-05 00:32:16.

Hey girlies, I’m making this post in this sub because I want to hear the perspective of other women instead of having a bunch of angry incels invade my post on the dating subreddits. So I was talking to this guy who is in his 30’s and I’m 24. We were getting to know each other and he asked me what I do for work, I told him and gave him a very clear answer on what I do ( I work in therapy with kids in case you were wondering lol) so I asked him what he does for a living and he just said “I have multiple sources of income”… um… ok sir that doesn’t answer my question… so I asked him again if he could explain what he means by that and he just repeated himself again😐

I am not a fan of ambiguity or vagueness and I think that I’m a pretty straightforward person, so the fact that he kept giving me the same vague answer over and over again and refused to tell me what he does for a living made me feel like he was involved in some sketchy shit so I blocked him everywhere and unmatched his profile. I don’t think it should be that hard to tell a potential date what you do for a living, especially at the age of 33… I sometimes feel like I’m being too picky and I’m too quick to block guys, but when they’re being super vague like that, it looks like a red flag to me, but what do you guys think?