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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/JYXpwkw on 2023-09-05 02:24:31.

My sister and I grew up kind of indifferent to each other, I guess. She always griped since we were kids about how mom should have gotten an abortion so she could stay the only child. She couldn’t remember what life was like as one but always hated having to share toys and material things.

She(28) and I(27f) grew up with ‘Alan’(28m). In high school, she dated Alan before cheating on him with several guys. Broke up with him by sending him a video of her having a threesome.

I asked Alan out a month later and he said yes. We have been married for four years now.

The issue is my sister is now homeless after losing her job. Our parents have begged us to take her in but Alan said no. I also don’t want her near Alan since she has regretted leaving him and has asked him to take her back or at least cheat on me with her, even though he told her no.

Our parents are really angry at me. They called me a terrible daughter so I told them that my sister is their daughter, not mine, and that I don’t care if she goes homeless. If they want to help her then can do it themselves, but it’s not my responsibility. They seemed really hurt that I don’t want to help my sister. Am I the asshole for going so far?