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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Successful-Range-717 on 2023-09-05 17:02:17.

My sister’s 32f getting divorced and my BIL threw her out of his house(it was his before they got married). It’s her fault. She decided that it’s smart to cheat on her husband with a 19-year-old kid.

Now she is looking for a place to stay since her money will soon run out if she continues to stay cheap hostels.

I 28m am the only relative that lives close to her city, an hour drive and there are options for using public transportation. I have agreed to let her stay as long as her daughter(almost 9f) doesn’t step foot inside my home.

Here are my reasons:

  1. She is a brat. If you don’t give her something she will break it out of spite. She broke the snowglobe I got from Rome when I was in high school last year because I would let her play with it.
  2. She is spoiled. My sister makes her at least 2 or 3 meals because she changes her mind on what she wants and if you don’t accommodate her there will be food on the floor if you are lucky if not on the walls or ceiling. Thankfully that happened in our parents home.
  3. She is just nasty. She can’t wipe herself because it’s dirty so my sister does it for her. That wouldn’t be a problem if she stayed in the bathroom, but if my sister isn’t there on time she will just walk out screaming with her pant down, sometimes leaving a trail. It’s not a pretty picture.

This are the main reasons but I can list a lot more examples if you would like. And before anyone asks she’s perfectly healthy, my sister made her like this since she is her little angel.

My sister is obviously mad at me for refusing to house her little angle. She says that she is a normal child and I would know if I had children. That separating a mother from her child is the cruelest thing that I could do. That it would look like she abandoned her if she does that and whatnot.

I don’t care. With how expensive thing are I don’t have the money to replace windows and if had to be frank I think my niece would be better of with her father for a while. He might be able to parent her now.

Our parents want me to take both of them in and say that they are disappointed with me. They wanted to take them in but they live 4 hours away and there is no way that my BIL would allow them to move her that far away.