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The original was posted on /r/dating_advice by /u/HumbleEngineering315 on 2023-09-05 21:25:09.

I typically meet women through apps. Most of the time we proceed to messaging off the app.

My policy is that I don’t send pictures until we see each other in person first because there are a lot of scammers nowadays.

Usually, the girl asks for a pic of me first, and I tell her that we should get coffee first. They then proceed to show immediate disinterest.

Is it normal to send pictures before a first date? Or is it only scammers that employ these tactics?