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The original was posted on /r/dating_advice by /u/LouraMax on 2023-09-06 00:13:35.

I(31F) have been talking to this guy (30) for over a month. We met on Hinge and really hit it off. We’ve hung out a few times, mostly grabbing meals because he’s got a hectic schedule with two jobs. Things got physical on our 4th date, and our communication was going strong. He was the one initiating texts, and it was great.

Now, here’s where it gets confusing. Last Friday, he went to a wedding and was sending flirty texts during the reception, talking about what we’d do when he got back. I was excited and thought we were going to meet up. He finally texted “Can’t wait.” But then he went totally silent, which was unusual because he usually updates me on his whereabouts. On Saturday, not sure if we are meeting or not, I texted him but he hasn’t replied.

It’s been four days of radio silence, and I think I’ve been ghosted. Going from daily texting to nothing hurts, especially after opening up to someone. Our relationship wasn’t purely physical from my perspective. We talk about everything and he shared a lot personal struggles with me. I thought we were at least friends at this point.

I can’t help but wonder if I did something wrong. I’ve never done sexting before, but it felt right at the moment. Maybe I shouldn’t do that? I was even planning to follow through the next day before he disappeared. The awkward part is I still have his apartment key. I’m hesitant to reach out to return it because it might seem pathetic if he’s not interested in talking to me again. I’ve been ghosted before and decided If someone wants to leave, I really don’t have the energy to chase them. What do you guys think I should do in this situation?