This is an automated archive made by the Lemmit Bot.

The original was posted on /r/dating_advice by /u/_Wandering_Person on 2023-09-06 07:07:58.

I am in my early 30s hard stuck on how I can find a lady to date.

I work out, work, and sleep during weekdays, and during weekends, I work out, do chores, play computer games, and sleep. Although I do exercise frequently, I am not fit, just an average man.

I try to not strike a conversation with ladies at gym because I have read that no ladies want to talk with random man. And therefore, I keep my mouth zipped, get my workout done, and leave.

I am an introvert and tries to not go out as often as I am still uncomfortable in my own skin (bald Asian man). And I have been put down (as in not good looking because I am bald) by few ladies including married women because I am bald. So, I am scared to get on social media to be put down more than I am; I feel like if I can put down furthermore, I will break. And being an introvert, I do not have any hobbies other than gym and computer games. And lately, I have been developing less interest in computer games, and have been wondering if this is how life (gym, work, and slee) is going to be like more often than usual.

My career is in engineering and I work full remote, so I do not see or interact with co-workers a lot (sometimes, none).

I am not sure what to do…