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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Puzzleheaded-Ad-7849 on 2023-09-06 07:02:41.

I don’t trust any man, and after dating a few of the ones that seemed genuinely kind and trustworthy only to reveal that they were disloyal, I’m struggling to date again. I’ve been talking trying to get past these feelings and believe there might be someone out there. It’s just so difficult when I think about the arrogance, laziness, and misogyny in the general population I just want to give up. I don’t feel like i am going to meet anyone who isn’t comparing me to women online or who actually takes care of themselves and focuses on their career while having empathy and being loyal to one person. Every guy I talk to is so full of themselves. I don’t know if it’s just the Andrew Tate generation or what, but I feel so hopeless. It’s like the ones who actually see women as people and seem kind and empathetic really just want a mommy to do everything for them while they complain and flirt with other girls and split the bill. But the ones who are willing to take care of you have a botched outlook on it and don’t see you as a person with any autonomy. I know it isn’t “all men” but it certainly is a lot of them.