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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Simple_Razzmatazz331 on 2023-09-06 16:52:14.

I m(27) married to my wife(f29) for almost 2 years. We both work full time , she works in education department as lecturer and I am corporate guy. Recently I got opportunity to travel to Singapore for corporate connect programme and we were also allowed to bring our spouses for this trip. I asked my wife for it and she said yess months ago.

But 3 weeks before the trip my wife said she has to attend a university curriculum program because a politician was attending as chief guest on the same week as our trip and it was mandatory for every faculty member to be there. It was bummer but I said okay but then my wife said she really wants to go on this trip so can I reschedule this I said no it’s not possible if we had informed them 1 month ago or something HR would have something but now before 3 weeks it’s not possible. So after that I went on trip and had a great time there because after dedicating 6 hrs per day for the programme we were free to do whatever we wanted. So we all saw majority of the city and enjoyed it very well.

After i came back from our trip my In-laws invited us for dinner and everyone was talking about the trip asking me about it, asking me to show them pictures and videos. In all that wife was just groaning and moaning about how she missed the chance and overall was being bad sport about it and at one point her brother even said can you shutup but she still continued doing it and then I said can you pls stop crying about it we can take vacation next year and now she is angry at me and her brother for disregarding her fellings. Was I the asshole here?