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The original was posted on /r/truscum by /u/yumikomimy on 2025-09-22 12:19:18+00:00.

In my times of need or getting advice subs like these go ratio silent because politics is the only thing anyone here enjoys. But the problem is main trans sub is they lack any self awareness or sometimes think validation solves everything when it doesn’t the community feels very forced or dry. The culture isnt funny and every one to up tight abt the rules for anyone to point out their flaws as a community. In my opinion 4tran4 was the closest thing to a trans community there was. There was consistent reply to any post, active users, no censorship, funny jokes and people who were just as socially deprived as me. People that desperately want community but it’s one of the most toxic places, where r u people? Where are the people were dysphoria makes them crippling alone why do I feel so alone, how did you get over your dysphoria did you just accept your friends see as a male and maybe one day they wouldn’t? How does your voice not cripple you. How does your dysphoria no make anti social did you some how end up with the best of best friends?

I still feel it every day it feels so lonely and for some reason trans people just sucks at making functioning communities online.