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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/TomboyAva on 2023-09-06 22:48:15.

Last night I went to this guy’s place that I met on Hinge. He was geeky and nerdy and he seemed considerate in his messaging. I just moved here and didn’t have friends so he offered for me to hang out in his place and watch some tv or play games with him. I didn’t want another night alone so I did. Big mistake.

At first, he didn’t act like I was there really, he seemed cold and standoffish and I was just sitting on his couch being as friendly as possible, I thought he was shy or something. While I was lounging on his couch he was just sitting upright and suddenly asked “Do you want to see it” I was confused at first because I’m stupid, but he kept asking “Do you want to see it” and I was taken aback and was like “No”.

Then he asked “What would you do if I pulled it out anyways” and IDK what I said but he suddenly leaned back and put his arm around me and he pulled his dick out. He then was like “You saw it didn’t you” And mind you this is like 10 minutes into me entering his place like. I try ignoring it and just looking at my phone, and he was asking me to touch it and that since I use hookup apps I should touch his dick and the entire time I was just trying to say no, maybe later, I’m not in the mood and ignoring him but it didn’t work.

He then poked me with his dick and started masturbating in front of me and the entire time kept asking me if I thought I was too good for him or something and I kept saying quietly that I said “no” and that I didn’t want to touch his dick after he finished he then told me that I should leave. IDK if he was ashamed of what he did or if he knew I couldn’t be pressured into having sex with him. After he left the room I gathered my things and ran for the door feeling quite shaken by the whole ordeal.

I don’t know why I didn’t leave him sooner, I don’t why it happened or what exactly happened, I feel stupid and kinda ashamed that I trusted him enough to go to his place. I thought I was good at judging his character but I guess I’m not. Today I can’t really concentrate and do any work.

I don’t know if I overreacted, or underreacted. I don’t know if I was in danger or not. I don’t know if I should continue to try to find a relationship with a man and move on from it, I mean I have been sexually assaulted before and I know this wasn’t as bad as that but I still feel so bothered from it, and can’t do any of my work I need to do today.

Sorry for rambling, I needed to vent. I feel I need advice and help. I think what bothers me the most is that I am a promiscuous girl, proudly so, I wouldn’t mind sleeping with him or most men if they would have just respected my boundaries or allowed me to connect to them but instead I felt like I was used as a disposable sex toy to him and it makes me nauseous. I feel my trust in men is at an all-time low.