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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/OkWinter1204 on 2023-09-06 19:02:49.

So I just made an appointment to get my nose pierced for tomorrow. I’ve had it pierced before I met my bf but had to take it out. I went and told him I was going to get it done and he’s begging me not to. Even said he’d pay me to not get it done, and asked why I don’t consult him when making these choices. We’ve been together a little over a year, am I wrong for not asking him or discussing it with him before? Also, should I not get it since he doesn’t want me to even though I want to? He said he doesn’t want to be seen in public with someone with a nose piercing.