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The original was posted on /r/truscum by /u/ResolutionWeak6353 on 2025-09-24 21:20:05+00:00.

I feel bad for adding fuel to the fire because polyamory gets enough hate as it is, but me personally I don’t understand it. I don’t get why you’d want to date multiple people at once other than if you just need attention 24/7. You can’t get married to more than one person, there’s bound to be someone feeling left out/like they’re not as loved as the other partner(s), etc.

Sorry if this is offensive but if someone asked me for a poly relationship I’d be offended. Like… you think I’m not good enough so you need someone else to date too? Am I just a side piece to you for when you’re bored?

I’m strictly asexual, no sex under any circumstances, and people have told me “well why don’t you just go poly that way you can date someone who can get sex from someone else.” So you’re saying I’m not enough and that the only way someone could want me is if they had someone else too. Dawg… I’d rather stay single 😭😭 what makes you think I want to be a backup choice?They might as well go date that other person then instead of “dating us both!!”, because being with me would be useless at that point. I find the idea personally offensive but that’s just me. What do you guys think?