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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/VampEdwardsLeftNip on 2023-09-07 09:35:53.

You guys I’m so tired. I’m single and have been for years by choice and when I tell you I only have one married couple of friends that are actually in a healthy hy relationship I mean it. 80% of my friends are married and they are all in a bad relationship one way or another most of them having an abusive or manipulative husband.

I don’t think everyone has to be single obviously not. But I’m so tired of everything always being about men or women putting their worth on if men like them or women being in an abusive relationship with a man. It’s so so so mentally draining to have almost all of your friends be that way. I love all of my friends but I just have point where I get so tired and I feel like I’m screaming at the top of my lungs for them to value themselves and not keep going down this rabbit hole.

I dont want kids either and it’s so difficult because EVERY SINGLE ONE of my couple friends who have kids the wives do 90% of the work and are killing themselves because of it. Kids doesn’t have to mean suffering but it seems like that all it is to everyone these days.

Does anyone feel like they just look at the world and the obsession with men or being “loved” by men and just want to loose their damn mind?? For the love of God someone tell me I’m not alone.