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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Little-Rose-Seed on 2023-09-07 14:27:12.

So I just need to tell someone and right now it feels like there is no one to tell:

This year has been a real ride. I had a major surgery on my face to remove a growth (not cancer) which required a lot of recovery. A few months later we bought a house and sold our house, which is a hell of a process, and incredibly stressful. I have two young kids, which require a lot of care (obviously). My health has been pretty awful in general with my period coming every two weeks and being at least seven days long. I am now on the pill and after a few months of medication experiments and such I feel more on top of things physically finally. But now my dad is dying and my mum is going through tests to see if her cancer has reoccurred, so I’m stressed. Through this time my husband has been supportive but also very busy himself and is pretty often out in the evening at least a few nights a week with meetings and stuff. My husband doesn’t pressure me but I still feel guilty that I have no real interest in sex. And I guess, despite all signals to the opposite, the subconscious belief that he will cheat if I don’t put out makes the guilt worse.