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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Affectionate-Ear339 on 2023-09-07 18:25:45.

My husband (57M) and I (39F) decided it was time our son (10M) had his bedroom redecorated as he still had Thomas the tank engine wallpaper. We let him choose what he wanted and he wanted it all painted. He knew the exact colour he wanted which was a minty green colour and spent ages find the right colour. We now need to choose a blind, so again I asked what he would like and he thought for a while and and said he thought pink would like nice with it. I suggested a coral colour so we looked online at different ones in all colours and patterns and he chose a pink one. I said it’s his room his choice. Now I knew hubby would not like this, son has always liked pink and hubby thinks this is my fault as it is also my favourite colour and I somehow forced it upon him. So I told hubby he want the pink one and he said no. “People with think it’s a girls room” I should point out his room overlooks an allotment and railway line, so not over looked at all. Anyway we looked at others but he really wants the pink one but dad won’t budge.

I should also point out we have a pink blind in our bedroom!

So AITA for saying yes in the first place knowing his dad would most likely say no?