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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Typical-Dealer-3294 on 2023-09-07 22:47:45.

I (48f) and my boyfriend (48m) have a daughter (22f). We both have very good paying jobs.

Recently my daughter needed a new car so my boyfriend and I bought her one since she’s in college and we think she needs to save the money at the moment. She’s always been responsable and her birthday is next weeka anyway. We bought her a new nice car so she doesn’t need to worry about it in the near future.

My nephew (20m), my niece (15f), my sister (44f) and my bil (46m) have been living with us for a while. All 4 of them spend a lot of money in useless things, so they often have financial problems. This time they spent so much they couldn’t afford rent for two months straight, so they had to move. Me and my boyfriend didn’t want to let them in, but we have a very big home and my parents were very pushy, so we finally agreed.

My sister has always been spoiled by my parents and she spoiled my nephew and niece as well. The problem is that my nephew he smashed his car and now he doesn’t have one.

Yesterday my daughter visited us and she had her new car. When my nephew saw it he said it wasn’t fair she has a car and he doesn’t, so he demanded one even more expensive. Obviously his parents can’t afford it, so they all said I had to buy him one.

I refused and they said since he lived in my house it was now also my responsibility to provide for him. So I said that if they didn’t stop they couldn’t live here anymore. Some hours later I received a call from my parents and they said I was a horrible sister and aunt and I had to help family.

Since then I received a lot of texts and my boyfriend thinks maybe we should just buy him a car since we can afford it, but I’m against it. AITA