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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Outside_Chemist_9693 on 2023-09-08 01:40:53.

I (f38) have been with my husband (41) for 5 years married for a couple of months now. I have 2 daughters (14) and (12). My husband has a daughter who passed away 8 years ago. Her room is still the same he never changed anything / took anything out. My daughters and I were living in an apartment before we moved in with my now husband. My daughters have to share a room The house has 3 bedrooms but because his daughter’s room still has everything in it my daughters share.

I think it’s fine he keeps some of his daughter’s stuff but I think it’s ridiculous to keep her whole room especially considering it has been 8 years. Today I decided to ask if he would consider getting rid of some of his daughter’s stuff so both girls get their own room. He got upset and said I was insensitive for expecting him to get rid of his daughter’s stuff. I told him it has been 8 years and I’m not expecting him to get rid of everything Just enough so both girls have their own room. He got mad and said he thinks he made a mistake marrying me because I’m an insensitive asshole and it shouldn’t matter how long it’s been.