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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/idkwhatimdoing5449 on 2023-09-08 02:35:38.

My boyfriend and I agreed that when we bought a house we’d begin trying to have kids. Well I’m still in graduate school and I’m just not ready. I am ready for parrots though. I only meant to get one but the rescued talked me into adopting a second one so here we are. My boyfriend is mad saying I’m willing to take on responsibility and accusing me of not wanting kids at all. I do just not right now. I’d rather wait until I’m out of grad school which I’ve expressed. He said I shouldn’t have gotten the birds then. Idk how to feel or what to do. One friend says I shouldn’t have gotten the birds. Others agree with me. AITA?