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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/abi_gail on 2023-09-08 10:35:27.

As the title suggests, excuse my ramble as I’m feeling emotional and attacked right now…I came home to some new clothes while my bf was watching tv and was trying them on. For context, I’m pretty short and muscular, have been for a really long time, I love the gym, I eat a lot but am pretty healthy and love seeing what my body can do. I also struggle a lot with binge eating but am working on it. While modelling one of my tops I asked my bf if he thought I looked a bit bigger in it. Was just sort of asking if it fit, as in maybe I should have got a size up, not asking if I myself look big. Anyway he said “you look like a short buff chick… I don’t love that look but I love you” and “actually I don’t know anyone that likes that look”. All I could say was “wow”. And he said he was just being honest and went back to his tv show. Well I feel like he’s basically said my body type is not attractive and that doesn’t sit very well with me. Not sure what to do or how to feel right now but I’m hurting a bit 😢