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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/tomc222423 on 2023-09-09 23:11:44.

For some context, my (F) dad remarried last year to the woman he had been dating for the past 4 years, she has three kids (all girls) and they all moved in like 6 or 8 months before the wedding. The house is big enough for all of us, tho, 2 of her kids have to share a room. Neither my mom nor their father are in the picture, so we all live here full time, I’m the oldest of the four.

Now, a few months ago my dad begun some remodeling in the house to accommodate them better, so he and the kids had to sleep in other places of the house for a few weeks and their stuff had to be put away, I let them store some of their clothes and their belonging in my closet with the understanding that they had to get their stuff out as soon as the rooms were fixed. I have a pretty big closet, but I don’t really own that many clothes, shoes or accessories to fill it, so beside what’s already there and some books, I have a lot of space.

Pretty soon I realized I made a mistake because they never knocked or asked to be let in my room to get their stuff and they only barged in whenever they wanted, but I sucked it up because I offered. Also besides some small modifications to my room it was pretty left untouched so I didn’t had to sleep around the house like them.

Now the issue: The rooms are all fixed and done and they all got back to sleep and have their stuff there, problem is, my step-mom and one of my step-sister’s took this ‘‘opportunity’’ to buy more stuff and were pretty much left with cramped closets, they still have a bunch of stuff here in my room and they still barge whenever they want and I’m done. I’ve asked multiple times and my dad has also asked them to take their stuff out but they always complain they don’t have space and I do, so ‘‘it hurts no one’’. I had enough when yesterday my step-mom barged in and I was changing, she said it was no big deal but I felt so embarrassed that when she left my room I just took their shit out and tossed it in the hallway.

Both my step-sister and her mom think I’m a selfish ah and my dad grounded me for what I did but ultimately made them take their stuff. AITA?