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The original was posted on /r/autism by /u/Smexy_Zarow on 2025-11-05 18:07:19+00:00.

I don’t get how others can just go to bars and concerts then come home with someone.

If I went to a social gathering I’d see everyone is already talking with each other and leave cause it’s not like I can bud into people’s business.

If I did find myself near someone not talking to someone, I’d find every single possible greeting I could say to be ridiculous, at best I’d say hi, then walk away…

I’ve recently left a toxic friend group, and ended my only ever relationship at the same time, and now I’m just feeling extremely lonely despite doing my best to maintain the few friendships I have left.

Tried a dating app, but… It’s like I’m invisible there, so idk what other options I have…

Should I just find some shitty concert and get shitfaced? Do I really need to drug/intoxicate myself to meet new people? (I don’t even have the contacts to get drugs, most people 5 years younger than me have probably been offered weed already)

I feel extremely fucking shitty right now…