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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/CastrowuzRight on 2023-09-10 17:57:45.
This weekend, I took a little friend vacation with my close friend group. A few of them invited their SOs and I’ve been dating my gf now for a long enough time that I don’t think it would be awkward to bring her along.
So my gf gets along with all my friends very well excluding one. My friend Jessica is a very nice girl, and in a lot of ways is very similar to my GF. I think that this is just one of the cases where people who are similar just repel because on paper the should be very good friends. They aren’t outwardly rude to each other however it’s clear they just don’t vibe.
So 3 things happened on this trip that lead to disaster.
- First our day there we planned on going to the beach. While we were getting ready my gf realized told me she was feeling bloated and she forgot to pack a one piece to wear. I told her we could just chill in the room and she said she wanted to go down to the beach but we should go buy one at the resort shop. On our way down we ran into Jessica and I told her we were going down to the shop to look for a new bathing suit. Jess then offered to let my gf borrow one of hers, my gf immediately rejected and said we’d buy one.
- We were at a bar drinking and dancing. Jess is only like 5’5 and probably less than 130. She’s also pretty much skin and bones, so she’s a light weight. Eventually she got pretty lit and was finding everyone and trying to get us to take a shot. When she got to us, I was down but my gf wasn’t. I told her it’d be fun but she said no and Jess said we were being boring. So I just took a shot with Jess. This set her off.
- The finale issue was that next day me and my gf were late for breakfast because we were getting intimate and lost track of time which was wrong of us. So apparently, Jess said she’d come get us and as she walked passed our door she heard zoo noises and then she went back down to everyone else and said that we were occupying each other and may be a minute. When we got down stairs, the group was cracking jokes which I thought was nbd. Then they said Jess heard us i which my gf got mad.
This was apparently the straw that broke the camels back. My GF snapped on her and told her that Jess has been being catty to her all trip and she’s been just trying to have a good time. She told her to stop being such a pickme bitch to her. This caused Jess to cry.
I told my GF she needed to apologize to her and resolve whatever beef they have. My gf said that Jess needs to apologize to her for acting like she did and that I’m being a dick for taking her side. We’ve been fighting about this since we got back and things are now awkward with Jess.
My friends are split on this as some think that my gf was being overboard while some think she may have had a point, which I don’t understand.
AITA?