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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/TaterNutta on 2023-09-11 03:21:37.

Im a virgin in my 20s. I’ve never explored down there that much until recently. My friends make me feel bad when i try to explain to them i cannot use tampons. They dont understand when i say it feels like im hitting a wall and i cannot find my “hole.” I’ve used a mirror to look around down there and it just looks like a fleshy wall. I know i have one, i have my period but for the love of god i cannot find it. I think i have my hymen still but i cannot say for certain where it is. I tried inserting a tampon but it just hurts when i try and i can only get it a little in. Not even sure if im putting it anywhere… i even bought special small tampons that are meant to be lubed but havent tried yet. How am i going to do it if i cant find my own vagina!? Im so frustrated. I need to make a gyno appointment but previously they didnt even want to mess with using a speculum on me in fear of “causing trauma”. I feel like somethings wrong with me and i havent met a girl with similar issues…