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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/mega_mando on 2023-09-11 13:46:53.

I’m on a trip with my fiance and I feel like I’ve been walking on eggshells the entire time. It’s made me realized I’ve felt lonely with him for years. He’s had chronic pain and puts his job first. It doesn’t help that his dad often belittles his accomplishments and emotional health. In turn, my partner often blames me for things like not helping him find a better house and his weight gain.

I miss who he used to be. I feel like I’m losing the best years of my life to him sometimes. I can’t remember the last time he put effort into the things I enjoy other than being there.

I know I’m an imperfect partner, but shouldn’t I feel loved?