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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Kitchen-Property9214 on 2023-09-11 17:13:36.

My son got married young, he literally went off to college for a semester and by Christmas got married. He dropped that bomb at Christmas. Anyways she (21) is staying here and son for two month since their apartment is getting fixed, water break. At first it was fine but we are 17 day into this and it is awful.

She tried to help and she sucks at it. Her help just causes a ton more work for me. For example she wanted to clean the bathroom. She used an abrasive sponge and now the mirror is messed up. She mopped when I was at work and she used boiling water and harsh chemicals and the stain lifted in some areas of the wood( I didn’t know you could do that)

I told her if she wants to clean so much just put things away. Well a few days ago she clean the living room and removed every cross in that room, that seriously pissed me off but I reiterated that to keep things in their room unless it’s is obviously in the wrong place.

Today I came home and she reorganized the whole kitchen, she moved all the pots, utensils, my table got moved. I told her she needs to put everything back and why she thought this was a good idea. She told me she didn’t like it so she fixed it.

We got in an argument over it where I called her a nuisance and to stop touching my shit. She ended up crying and now my son is on my ass